Situationship Screening | Mini Guide

14 Questions to Ask Before You Emotionally Invest in Another “Maybe”

Before you start mentally monogramming his initials or naming your future dog together… pause.

Situationship Screening is your emotional insurance policy—14 blunt, brilliant questions designed to help you spot red flags before you start spiraling, fantasizing, or trying to manifest chemistry out of thin air.

This mini guide is designed to help you spot the 🚩 before you start spiraling and screenshotting texts to upload into ChatGPT.

This isn’t about playing hard to get. It’s about not playing yourself.

What It Actually Does:

You know that moment when your gut whispers “this feels off” but your hope yells “let’s see where it goes”? This guide was built for that moment.

It helps you:

• Ask the kind of questions that surface truth, not performance
• Decode his answers like an intuitive lie detector with lip gloss
• Catch emotional unavailability before you catch feelings
• Spot breadcrumbing, avoidant behavior, and the “I’m just busy” trap
• Walk away with your dignity intact, not your nervous system wrecked.

👀 Who This Is For:

• The woman in her “Is this a connection or a cortisol spike?” era
• You, if you're still recovering from the last emotionally unavailable guy who swore he "wasn’t like the others" (he was)
• Anyone who’s ever tried to telepathically decode a “you up?” text
• The self-aware, emotionally fluent queen who’s so done collecting walking red flags in nice shoes
• And yes—every FBI-level intuitive who’s tired of cross-referencing screenshots with her group chat like it’s a full-time job

This isn’t about playing it cool.
It’s about playing it clear.

xo, Clair💋

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